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Wednesday, April 22, 2015

salahkan guru / pengasuh / orang gaji?

Salam...


pelik..belikan anak segala macam buku mahal2...alatan mainan mahal2 konon untuk merangsang minda bagi cerdik...belikan CD pembelajaran...hantar sekolah mahal2...private school...tuisyen lagi sana sini..tapi kat rumah kau sibuk dengan handphone...sibuk fikir hal diri sendiri...anak kau biar...kau jarang jumpa..jarang borak..jarang ajar & didik dia..bila dia buat salah sikit...kau tengking dia macam dia dah tau fikir mana betul mana salah...tak faham parents yang macam ni.... 




haruslah diingatkan....soal didik anak..jaga anak..asuh anak ni tugas kita sebagai ibu bapa...tu amanah tuhan bagi kat kita...jangan sebab orang lain sibuk ada anak..kau pun sibuk nak anak banyak2...lepas tu kau abai soal didikan dia...kau fikir setiap bulan setakat beli susu, pampers & barang keperluan dia dah cukup tanggungjawab kau?? ingat senang jadi parents? kalau setakat labur duit camtu...pastu upah cikgu..upah pengasuh...memang la senang...tapi jangan kau nak salahkan diaorang andai anak salah didikan...kau sendiri ajar anak kasar...kau expect anak hormat kau bila dah besar nanti??


aku sedih bila fikir semua ni...teringat kata2 seorang cikgu kaunseling aku dulu...dia cakap...ramai ibu bapa salahkan guru bila anak kurang ajar...anak liar...anak ponteng sekolah...anak ponteng kelas...tapi diaorang tak fikir...tak muhasabah diri...didikan sebenar2 bermula dari rumah...ibu & bapa adalah orang yang paling bertanggungjawab ke atas anak dia...bukan cikgu...bukan pengasuh..jauh sekali orang gaji..................so kat mana pergi sifat tanggungjawab kita sebagai ibu bapa??


please...bila ada orang tegur anak kita buat salah...fikir semula..diaorang tegur tu sebab sayang...

just my two cents though (-_-) 


pesanan untuk anak mama :-




anak-anak ku sayang...ahmad zafran & ahmad zhariff...kadang kala mama marah...mama pukul...bukan sebab mama benci..tapi kerana sayang lah mama begitu...mama tak nak anak2 mama manja tak bertempat...tak boleh ditegur bila salah...maafkan mama...kadang kala i'm a bit harsh...percayalah...mama sayang kamu berdua sampai akhir hayat mama.........semoga anak2 mama jadi penyejuk hati...untuk sekarang dan masa hadapan... 


 

1 comment:

  1. Betul..anak adalah amanah bg stp ibu bapa. Kitalah guru pertama mereka. T/ jwb mendidik anak2 tergalas di bahu ibu bapa smp mati..

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